My Rules for Successful Grand Parenting

You may follow all, or none, the choice is yours.  Just remember, your daughter or daughter-in-law has just given birth to another human being. Her hormones are raging, show some sensitivity, compassion and...

1. Listen, listen, listen.

2. Do not offer your opinion, unless asked (I admit to biting my tongue on this one).

3. Do not hover. Keep a respectful distance while new parents are tending to baby. Your
    hovering, although well meaning, can be irritating.

4. Never take a baby out of the arms of your children unsolicited...are you crazy?
 
5. Don't ask where the adorable outfit or stuffed animal is which you purchased. It is rude on
    so many levels, to ask of anyone. Once the gift has left your hands it is none of your
    business.
 
6. Don't snap pictures of your grand-babies and post them on Facebook. Ask your children
    first.They may not want pictures plastered over the Internet of their little cherubs. You've
    had your children. This call is not yours.

7. Plan visits to see your grandchildren at the convenience of your children. No surprises!

8. Be thoughtful of your children's requests when they visit. A car seat is a must. We have one
    in the car at all times and a crib or Pack 'N Play should be available. I know this first hand
    when as a young mother I flew home and my requested car seat and crib were no where
    to be seen. Baby daughter slept in a drawer. And you all wonder why I'm writing a book...

 9. Don't call at prime times of the day for a chat, like the bewitching hours of 4:00 pm through
     dinner.

10.Channel your inner early mother and fatherhood experiences. It will help you remember
     what is a great idea and what might not be such a good idea after all.



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